Aaron Qayumi on Letting Go of the Idea that Anything Can Possibly Stop You from Doing Something that You Want To Do

What is the relationship between your identity and your desires? Perhaps related, perhaps not: why is sex (un)important to you?

My identity is a shell that I wear like a hermit crab, and change from time to time. My desires are what move me forward from one place to another, and when they get big enough they inspire me to look for a new shell. Sex is important because I always desire it, and because being naked is a brief relief from the weight of wearing an identity-shell.